It‘s easy to put pressure on a romantic relationship during specific occasions： a proposal， Valentine’s Day， a birthday， an anniversary， a wedding. But in reality， the other， more “normal” days are quieter， and often provide better excuses to love and be loved.

在特定的場合很容易給戀愛關(guān)系施加壓力：求婚、情人節(jié)、生日、周年紀(jì)念日、婚禮。但是實際上，另外那些更多的“正?！比兆?，更安靜的日子，也經(jīng)常為愛與被愛找更好的借口。

Here are 20 tiny moments that show what true love really looks like：

這20個小瞬間告訴你真愛的真實模樣：

1. When your partner makes coffee for you right before you wake up in the morning.

1.早晨你的伴侶在你剛醒之前為你泡咖啡的時候。

2. When you give your partner a back massage even though you‘re tired， too.

2.盡管你也累了，你還是為你的伴侶進行背部按摩的時候。

3. When you go to three different grocery stores to find his/her favorite dark chocolate bar.

3.當(dāng)你跑了3個不同的食品雜貨店去尋找他/她最喜歡的黑巧克力棒的時候。

4. When you laugh at each other‘s bed head.

4.當(dāng)你們互相取笑對方蓬頭垢面的時候。

5. When your partner orders you an Uber because you‘re running late for work.

5.當(dāng)你的伴侶因你上班要遲到了，而為你在優(yōu)步（一款打車軟件）上下訂單的時候。

6. When you visit your parents and noticing your partner doing the dishes or helping your parent learn to use a new iPhone （unasked）.

6.當(dāng)你去拜訪父母，注意到你的伴侶（主動）洗盤子或幫助你的父母學(xué)習(xí)使用新的蘋果手機的時候。

7. When your partner has a glass of wine ready for you when you walk in the door after work.

7.當(dāng)你下班進門，你的伴侶為你準(zhǔn)備好一杯葡萄酒的時候。

8.When you buy your partner his/her favorite snack from Trader Joes.

8.當(dāng)你為你的伴侶從Trader Joes雜貨店里購買他/她最喜歡的點心的時候。

9. When your partner runs out to buy you tampons.

9.當(dāng)你的伴侶跑出去為你買衛(wèi)生棉的時候。

10. When your partner surprises you with donuts. Enough said.

10.當(dāng)你的伴侶用甜甜圈給你驚喜的時候。毋庸贅言。

11. When your partner tidies up around the house.

11.當(dāng)你的伴侶收拾家務(wù)的時候。

12. When your partner cooks or takes care of you when you‘re sick.

12.當(dāng)你的伴侶在你生病時為你做飯或照顧你的時候。

13. When your partner stands for hours at the front of a stage waiting to see Beyonce despite the fact that s/he doesn‘t like her music that much.

13.當(dāng)你的伴侶在舞臺前站數(shù)小時等著見碧昂斯的時候，盡管事實上她/他并沒有那么喜歡她的音樂。

14. When you pick the restaurant you know your partner wants even though “I don‘t care， you pick” was said.

14.當(dāng)你選了你知道你的伴侶很想去的那家餐廳的時候，盡管他/她說了“我無所謂，你選吧”.

15. When you spend a lot of time researching holiday gifts for your partner‘s family.

15.當(dāng)你花大量時間為你的伴侶的家人選節(jié)日禮物的時候。

16. When your partner buys his/her favorite book from childhood for your baby niece‘s first Christmas.

16.當(dāng)你的伴侶買了他/她童年時最喜歡的書作為你的小侄女第一次圣誕節(jié)禮物的時候。

17. When your partner has chicken noodle soup delivered to your apartment when you‘re home sick.

17.當(dāng)你的伴侶在你想家的時候送雞肉面湯到你的公寓的時候。

18. When your partner says “I‘m proud of you” for getting through something difficult.

18.當(dāng)你的伴侶因你解決了一些難題而表示“我為你驕傲”的時候。

19. When you‘re allowed to fall asleep during a road trip.

19.當(dāng)在公路旅行中你的伴侶允許你睡著的時候。

20. When your partner buys a toaster， coffee maker， space heater and microwave for his/her apartment so that you‘re as comfortable as possible when you stay there.

20.當(dāng)你的伴侶為他/她的公寓采購了烤箱、咖啡機、小暖爐以及微波爐以便你呆在那兒時感到舒心的時候。