“同齡心語”如約和大家見面了，首次向大家坦露心聲的是來自山東的陶冉同學(xué)。

I?蒺m Tao Ran from Shandong Province.

I want to say something about my parents. When I talk with my friends on the phone， my parents always listen consciously(有意識地). This makes me very uncomfortable. I tell them not to do so， but they don‘t listen to me. I’m really annoyed (苦惱的). What should I do? Please help me.

陶冉同學(xué)，首先你要理解，父母這么做完全是想要保護(hù)你。如果父母的這種方式你接受不了的話，為什么不和他們坐下來好好談一談呢?把自己的心里話講出來，我相信你的父母是會理解和支持你的，而且以后也不會聽你在電話里講什么內(nèi)容了。