March 28th， 2002. Thursday， fine

Premature love is a sensitive topic to us， but as the society develops， it is not a strange phenomenon any more. Nowadays it is even fashionable. I don't know whether it is kind of advancement or decadence of consciousness.Many teenagers have been greatly influenced by it and therefore be come victims.

Adolescence is a period of time when everyone is most active in thinking and imagining， so teenagers are always impulsive to do everything. What's more， we are interested in knowing whatever we don't know because we are curious. Usually， we don't bother to consider the bad consequence it might cause whenever we are doing something.So， we always meet difficulties and even failures. Some people are stronger and braver， so they can't be defeated by any hardship; instead， they become more and more mature.But some people are not strong enough.Once they have been knocked down， they can never stand up again.Whatever result it is， it will definitely bring people great hurt. Personally，I am not in favor of premature love，because generally speaking，it is harmful.As teenagers， we should control our impulsive passions.Only in this way can we protect ourselves from being hurt.

Although we are looking forward to love， which seems so mysterious to us， premature love is merely a confused and mixed feeling， which is not real love.I still remember what a teacher said to her students in a teleplay. She said， \"Now， we are on a bus， heading for our destination. The scenery along the road is so beautiful. If you can't resist the attraction of the scenery and get off the bus， you will find you are going in another direction when you get on the bus again.\" So， we'd better control ourselves no matter how strongly we are longing for love. Bury the curiosity towards life deep in our heart， and enjoy it when we are mature!

2002年3月28日 星期四 睛

“早戀”對(duì)于我們來(lái)說(shuō)是敏感的話題，可是隨著時(shí)代的進(jìn)步，這已經(jīng)是一個(gè)不再陌生的現(xiàn)象了。我不知道這到底是一種思想的進(jìn)步，還是一種思想的頹廢，但它確實(shí)已成為一種時(shí)尚的社會(huì)風(fēng)氣了。在這股潮流的影響下，我們的許多同齡人成為了這種風(fēng)氣的犧牲品。

青春期是每個(gè)人思想最活躍的時(shí)期，所以青少年的行為也就帶有很強(qiáng)的沖動(dòng)性，同時(shí)，對(duì)一些事物的好奇心也促使我們?nèi)L試那些未接觸過(guò)的事物。因此，我們?cè)谧鲞@些事情時(shí)，從不考慮會(huì)產(chǎn)生不良的后果，而這些后果又反作用于我們，使我們?cè)馐艿綇奈从羞^(guò)的挫折與打擊。堅(jiān)強(qiáng)一些的人在一次次經(jīng)歷了同樣的打擊后，會(huì)慢慢的長(zhǎng)大與成熟起來(lái)，當(dāng)他們真正長(zhǎng)大時(shí)，免不了對(duì)自己過(guò)去的行為感到慚愧；而另一些人則在這種打擊下墮落了。我想無(wú)論是哪種結(jié)果，都會(huì)讓人受到刻骨銘心的傷害。我是不贊成“早戀”的，在中學(xué)時(shí)代我們應(yīng)當(dāng)控制住那種沖動(dòng)，避免它為我們帶來(lái)不應(yīng)由我們這個(gè)年齡所承擔(dān)的壓力和打擊。

雖然我們對(duì)愛(ài)情充滿了向往和好奇，但早戀只是一種朦朧的、無(wú)限神秘感覺(jué)，是一種不成熟的感情。記得在一部電視劇里曾有位年輕老師對(duì)他的學(xué)生說(shuō)過(guò)：“現(xiàn)在的我們就好像坐在汽車(chē)上向目標(biāo)的方向前進(jìn)，沿途的風(fēng)景很美，如果你經(jīng)不住這風(fēng)景的吸引而途中下車(chē)去游覽，當(dāng)你再上車(chē)時(shí)，你就會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)駛向已不是同樣的目的地了。”因此我們一定要控制自己，把那份對(duì)生活的好奇埋藏在自己的心靈深處，待日后我們成熟了，再去享用它吧！